Tell us about your sex life, Nia. 'Well the first time I had sex it was pretty innocent. We were both nervous and anxious, and it was kind of awkward. The sex I had after that got better, but I don't have it nearly enough. I masturbate in private, but I want the real thing more regularly. I still haven't done anything too kinky, but I want to. Besides being on your website, the kinkiest thing I've ever done would probably be having sex while my boyfriend's dad was downstairs.