Stella's clit is bigger than average and because of this, we can use it as an example of where a woman's clit is and how to easily find it. The clit hood covers the clit at the top of the pussy. This is a very sensitive area for a woman. Every woman is different and playing with a clit has to be done carefully based on each woman's preference. Some like direct contact and some like the clit to stay behind the hood to avoid direct contact. Start out easy and use her reactions as a guide to determine how hard you can play with it and if it can be played with while completely exposed.